Escorting 101 With Rafael Alencar

Posted May 21, 2012 12:12 AM by with 26 comments

Becoming a male escort is something I think every gay man has considered at some point in their lives. Realities of the job notwithstanding, there’s something appealing about being paid to have sex, not to mention the validation of knowing your hot enough to do it.

If anyone is familiar with the ins-and-outs of the oldest profession, it would be Supertop Rafael Alencar, who’s won numerous awards for both porn and hustling. He was nice enough to gave us a peek into his daily grind in this clip, where he’s talking to a potential client and talks about getting paid to fuck on and off camera, shot (fittingly) on the set of Hooker Stories

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26 responses to Escorting 101 With Rafael Alencar

  1. Luke May 21st, 2012 at 5:42 AM

    WOW
    Very interesting. If Rafael fucks his clients like he does his partners on video, no wonder he is the #1 escort LOL
    One thing that I noticed from the video is how sincere he seems and genuine. I can only imagine what a fortune this guy makes. Good for him.

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  2. Kyle May 21st, 2012 at 7:23 AM

    Really..”ever man has thought about escorting at one time or another”…generalization much?

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    • Shamama May 21st, 2012 at 12:14 PM

      The part where I said, “I think” means that it is my opinion, in which you’re welcome to disagree with. Thank you for reading!

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      • Sam May 21st, 2012 at 8:16 PM

        I believe that your opinion is very very wrong. I could understand if you had said every gay porn star because that actually sounds plausible but as a gay man I can tell you I have never thought of escorting as desirable. I do agree that you generalize a bit too much, and even though I know this is your blog and you are entitled to your opinion some proof-reading and careful editing never hurt anybody.

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        • Shamama May 21st, 2012 at 10:53 PM

          You have every right to disagree, and I appreciate your civility. To clarify, I when I said “has considered”, I meant it in an abstract sense, like: “I wonder what it would be like to be paid to have sex … ” not “I am going to quit my job tomorrow and become a full-time hustler …” Maybe you can help me understand why either scenario is so enraging that it’s prompted three people to respond that they disagree with me?

          Regarding “proof-reading and careful editing”, however, this is one thing that I could not heartily agree with you more on, and I would purport that Mike and I have done a pretty good job upholding the rules of English grammar on here. But we are just human and the occasional typo does slip through — if you see any please feel free to drop either of us a line.

          Thank you for reading,
          Jack

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  3. Gravy May 21st, 2012 at 8:20 PM

    I am sorry but he looks like hell in this video, and i would not suck that nor touch it in any manner.

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    • Walter V May 23rd, 2012 at 12:00 PM

      I agree with you. He doesn’t look very good. Yes, he has a nice body but he looks like he could use some sleep and needs to drink more water. I saw him once at a train station in Brooklyn not long ago- he’s quite short and not really striking.

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  4. Alfred Kane May 21st, 2012 at 9:59 PM

    You certainly do have a low opinion of your readership.

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    • Shamama May 21st, 2012 at 10:29 PM

      Alfred —

      This statement makes a number of false assumptions:

      -Every gay man reads this blog (False)
      -The readership of this blog is limited to gay men (False)
      -Entertaining the idea of getting paid to have sex is something to be ashamed about (False)
      -I have a low opinion of all gay men (False … mostly)

      I love the readers of this blog; I dislike people who troll it looking for a fight

      Best,
      Jack

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      • Winterhell May 22nd, 2012 at 11:47 AM

        If all the assumptions are false, then why invest time and e-real-estate in making such a statement? Very few people have such aspirations, i.e. becoming an expendable commodity.

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      • Alfred Kane May 22nd, 2012 at 5:46 PM

        If you consider everyone who dares to disagree with your promotion of prostitution as a good career choice for all gay men a “troll”, then perhaps you should consider a new line of work. The public realm is obviously not your forte.

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        • Shamama May 23rd, 2012 at 10:43 AM

          I didn’t say anyone who disagrees with me is a troll — just you, dear.

          Anyway, I’m always open to new job opportunities: Can you ask your boss if they’re hiring at Quizno’s?

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  5. jimboivyo May 22nd, 2012 at 4:36 PM

    he IS looking rough and he’s nowhere near the #1 escort out there.

    high end clients don’t deal with things like that. he wouldn’t know the high end, big money side of male escorting if it bit him.

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    • devon charles May 24th, 2012 at 4:51 AM

      I understand that he’s essentially a midget.

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      • Mike May 24th, 2012 at 9:06 AM

        Actually, he’s not at all. He’s quite handsome in person, and not anyone I think of as short. (I did do a lot of probing around his chest and ass to make sure they were real, and I’ve got to tell you — it’s impressive.)

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        • Dave May 27th, 2012 at 11:29 AM

          I remember meeting Rafael years ago. Recently ran into him. He has aged dramatically. Anyone who think that hustling does not take a physical toll is living in a fantasy world. I have known quite a few hustlers. (I work out at David Barton gym in NYC.) And while a few hold up ok; for the most part, its a business that is very hard on the body and mind.

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  6. Tom May 22nd, 2012 at 11:20 PM

    It may be a strange way to live, when sex is work. Porn makes our lives more fun ( a DVD player doesn’t care how you look lol )

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  7. T-Bird May 23rd, 2012 at 6:58 AM

    I kinda took the video as Rafael almost mocking the clients wishes. And Jack can I say I love your blog and all its transformations over the years. The content has never been sharper and current stories and pix have never been better :)

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  8. Mark F. May 26th, 2012 at 12:41 AM

    Rafael is not my type, and I have to say he really doesn’t look so good here. Maybe the makeup they put on him in his movies helps.

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  9. Luke June 2nd, 2012 at 2:29 AM

    I saw him in London during a show and he’s quite short. He was looking better than in this video where he seems something between sleepless and drunk. Sorry but I wouldn’t pay for an escort shorter than 6 Ft.

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  10. kyle June 2nd, 2012 at 8:04 AM

    How many guys has he sold himself to that disgust him but he does it anyway for the cash? This takes a mental fuck on you and you know he gets infections from some of these guys. And referring to himself as a whore? Great body and lots of cash but at a great expense to your soul. “Give me cash and I’ll fuck just about anyone”

    It’s unhealthy physically and mentally. And I believe it’s illegal.

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  11. Ayobalimi June 9th, 2012 at 4:17 AM

    Is he bi ?

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  12. dan June 28th, 2012 at 1:48 AM

    How truly sad. He looks haggard, worn out and probably methed out for God only knows how long. The worst part is he seems empty and souless. Almost as if he life has been reduced to hooking and his body. He seems to have no intrigue left and has resigned to being a total object. Id like to have more hope for him but he seems to doing this till the wheels fall off (which could be in 5 years or less or wont command nearly half of 1,200). Lesson learned: Don’t be a hooker and if you are make an exit plan before 30.

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  13. David October 11th, 2012 at 12:07 PM

    Hot bod and hot videos. But he looks older than what he is, and frankly his attitude was not great. When you are trying to look 25 and come across as 45 then it is time to start looking for other gigs. Although…….kudos to him for knowing how to use an internet phone.

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  14. Nerissa Fedak December 2nd, 2012 at 11:37 AM

    Hello All. I have been scamed twice from Escort agencies. First one is based in England. in which they told me i was meeting clients but need to pay £385 to set up my profile before hand. I payed the money in to there bank accounts and never heard back from them. I have sent many emails but still no luck.

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