damn, he's hot too.

he will make a good girlfriend for some bubba in prison.

Hmmm, he looks like rough trade so I'm not really surprised that he's on the run.

If this goes anywhere, I'm sure the media will have a field day with the gay porn angle.

Isn't this like Tim Lowe (who did a movie after he came out of prison)?

I always thought he was possibly gay for pay, now this just confirms it. The real story here is that someone's life has been taken away, undoubtedly someone's father, brother, son, husband. I think all concerns and thoughts should be with the deceased man's family, not the former gay for pay star. This is just sad. If he did in fact commit the crime, then he needs to go to prison for life.

Awwww he's so cute... I don't want him to go to prison!

see what happens when you repress your sexuality

Thank you Marc. It is nice to see that not everyone in our community is tactless.

From the Denver Post story (see link), it's obvious that "gay for pay" is the wrong term for him.

The proper term is "self-hating bisexual man". He expressed violent hatred for gay people to a neighbor woman all the while having sex with men. He had major anger issues, starting fights over petty issues with friends. I hope this puts to rest that gay-for-pay is actually bisexual.

Ish,

You're so right. The only thing worse than tactlessness is sanctimony.

Why can't closted gay men just except who they are? When will people just get over themselves already? These feelings they have are not going away and they never will go away. Deal with it already. Your life will be that much better. STOP THE INSANITY! (Hahaha - I had to.)

Why can't closted gay men just except who they are? When will people just get over themselves already? These feelings they have are not going away and they never will go away. Deal with it already. Your life will be that much better. STOP THE INSANITY! (Hahaha - I had to.)

This is why we need legislation in this country that will change the context of the word "gay" from a negative to a positive. Now we have lost 2 more good people becasue of it, A nice man and a hot man, all because "gay" is still a cuss word.

I know Jay, I went to HS with him and actually dated him. I ran into him about 2 years ago at a mall, he told me he was in the army and doing really good. That he got off of the drugs and was cleaning up his life. Well doesn't look like it!! WOW!! What a waste of good looks.

OMIGOD i know jay! i went to high school with him and we dated. this is crazy!!!! he was one of my really good friends!!! me and my friends are totally freaked out!!

According to the RMN story and the Denver Post story, "He [Boham] hated gays. He hated their lifestyle." They also report he has an explosive temper and a large collection of guns, including a rifle with a silencer. That's always a good mix. The victim was gay; Boham worked for him. This is beyond him being gay-for-pay or a self-hating bisexual. The RMN describes him as "a former porn star". Both papers say Boham told the customs officials he was wanted on a 1st degree murder charge. No one has yet mentioned a motive.

There is not such thing as gay for pay, if a guy is really "straight" fucking around with a guy isn't even an option. Come on my fellow sista's wake up. If it walks, talks, and looks like a duck, it's a duck.

Just wanted to add a reality check!

Thanks

Man, what a pity. This guy is wonderfully gorgeous. But, if he committed the crime, he deserves to be put away for the rest of his miserable little life.

Who cares whether this guy was bisexual or heterosexual? In his mind, he was probably hetero, especially if he did not perform oral sex or allow himself to be penetrated. Or kiss other men.

I think the issue here is the exploitation that goes on in the gay community: both the exploitation of people viewed by the mainstream as gorgeous, and in turn their exploitation of those that are attracted to them.

It's unfortunate, but attractive hustlers like this guy so often tend to be thieves, manipulators, abusers and now, it seems, murderers.

Yes, it's terrible, blah blah blah and yes, he's a self-loathing monster, blah blah blah, but "good looking", "hot" "attractive"?

I know sexual attraction is entirely subjective but as far as I'm concerned he looks like one of those lower-middle-class knuckleheads from some mall in New Jersey.

Sure, that can have its own brand of rough and tumble charm but he's not even an example of that; not by far.

Pass!

Damn, i want to know what prision he is in so can go and get some from the stud muffin!!!

He is really hottie armed...

Here here babydog.....

You are so correct.

And yes, a duck is a duck and a gay man is a gay man. Who gives a crap anyway??

Bottom line is this! If he did in fact murder someone then let him burn in hell.

I love u and want make love

It saddens me the amount of guys how seem to think that even if he is guilty he shouldnt go to prison because he is cute

I used to think being closeted about being gay meant NOT having sex with guys! haha This guy is just one major screw up and should be locked away forever if he is found guilty!

gay murders just turm me on so much !!!!!

I can believe what I am reading. Like everyone else said "What a shame and a waste of life". He has to live with this the rest of his life. Nobody knows what makes people tick. I had a very bad experience with someone that I meet several years ago. He beat me up, but thank god I am still alive. He also was very good looking. And of course I was the blame for taking this man home with me. But that is all I will say. As I said before I hope he will not be able to commite a crime again.

I guess as the saying goes nothing shocks anyone these days. It is all possible to take place. I think it is a shame that a man could do something like this. He has to live the rest of his life with this. There must be something else to make this happen. A few years ago I had a bad experience with a person that I took home. I was beat up and I thank God I am alive today. That person was very goodlooking also. But we all learn from our mistakes and try not to do the same thing over again. End of comment.

let me know if you need a prison pen pal. i make conjugal visits.

I had wondered why we had not seen more of him. He was damn near perfekt. Yet, now we understand that a member of the gay porn industry does not actually indicate sanity. That just plain sucks.

Does this mean he has a "killer cock"?

I actually think he's cute, but also bland looking. His scruffy mughshot crime photo is more attractive looking to me. The airbrushed look never did it for me.

What a waste of life. He'll be wearin' an orange jumpsuit for the rest of his life. With any "luck", in this homophobic country (U.S.A.), he might be let out early